Our final week in Nairobi was frantic. The movers arrived promptly Monday morning. All six of them were polite, clean and in company uniforms. They moved with the swift smooth assuredness of men who had been doing this for years. They spread like a virus throughout the house, infecting every corner and sending the house residents, Gary, Jane, Samson and even Nelson into ever-increasing circles of not belonging. It was all going according to plan.
(Photos to be added once cables arrive from Africa in either our air or sea shipment – which is currently unknown.)
I worked from home on Mon and Tues, to oversee and answer questions. We had been advised to keep our eyes on the packers, but with six of them and only Gary, Jane and I, it was not possible and eventually, perhaps in defeat, I began to feel that it was not warranted. I tapped away and took calls in the office as long as the office was still in tact. On Wednesday morning, I went into the office to have some meetings a print files and to get my old laptop that I brought from Canada working again. I was home in time to see the men packing all the boxes onto the container. It was like a jigsaw puzzle, a work of art and I was relieved to see that just as they had promised, it all fit (despite the dire first hand stories I had heard of people who had to jettison items that they had been reassured would fit). Kelly, the only unboxed item, but with an identification and ownership sticker on his back, was the last item put in place. There was room to spare. (I could have purchased items and brought them back for my County Shuka Duka!)
I said my final good-bye to the Gem, a warm and gracious place to call home, which quickly became home for us and an idyllic island getaway of peace and great come together place for parties, not only for ourselves but for several others. As Norm Seli had predicted, it had become the Balm East, very East. Our own wonderful Nidulus.
Glenda, ever the thoughtful, kind and generous friend had always offered a room in her apartment for us to stay before we left Kenya and we gratefully accepted. At the time, her three bedrooms were set up as a master bedroom, guest room with twin beds and an office. What none of us knew at the time, was that Glenda would be packing up so soon after us. Since we accepted her invitation, the beds in the guest room had moved next door to Kyle’s apartment, to accommodate his wife and two kids visiting for the summer. And to make things even more hectic, Angela and Kyle were moving apartments as well. All three of them in three consecutive days. Naturally, there was a party at Glenda’s. By the time we had finished in Karen and drove along the fascinating jumble of shops, and stalls, restaurants and hawkers along Ngong Road, all stories waiting to be told, it was almost 9pm and the gathered tribe were in full swing. As usual, the place was bursting with food, energy and good will, and a fair amount of beverages and music. I need not have worried about Tusker. I had thought that perhaps putting his crate in the room Glenda had designated as Tusker’s room, and leaving him in a ‘quieter’ place would be easier for all of us, but Glenda assured me that anything at tail height had been removed and his tail indicated he was up for the crowd. I should have known he would be in his element with so many people around. Eventually he wandered calmly from hand to hand, discerning those that were happy to heap attention on him. But Tusker’s room was the former guest room. Sleeping logistics? No problem for Glenda. She would move downstairs and sleep in Angela’s guest room, at least for the one night that Angela was still downstairs. For the next time, she insisted on keeping us in her room while she slept on the bed. Unbelievable. As it turned out, unbeknownst to me, as I sat on the toilet in her bathroom trying not to wake Gary up, hastily sending out last chance work emails, Glenda was up at 3am fussing with email and sorting out last-minute screw ups for her return flight to Australia. We should have had a pot of tea together!
On Thursday, I went into the office to return my Kenyan laptop. My colleagues had a delightful pot luck lunch for me with delicious Quiche, spicy rice, meat balls, grilled meat, pizza and cake. Kind words, farewells and, of course, lots of laughs were exchanged.
Saying good-bye knowing that I would still be in the same role, working from Canada with these colleagues and friends helped. Confident that I would meet some of these folks again, somewhere in the world, helped even more. Knowing that we would see some in the near future helped even more. But it was still difficult to say Kwaheri Kenya.
Friday was a whirlwind of taking Tusker to the vets in Karen. He was to board with Nonee for almost a week as he would be leaving Kenya after we arrived in Canada. From there, we were back into town for Gary to see the doctor to ensure his eye had healed (a separate story for another time). Then to the office to print documents I needed for customs and had just received. Then we took the car to the leasing office, to top off with gas and to settle the June invoice and to finalize July payments. While the July statement was being created and the car being gassed up, Nelson, Gary and I had lunch at the new burger restaurant next door. While our flight didn’t leave until 7pm, it was Friday which could mean that traffic on Mombasa Road might be a nightmare. As well, preparations for U.S. President Obama’s visit were underway which could also impact traffic, so we headed out to the airport after 1.
Naturally, and yet simultaneously ironic, traffic moved well. We passed by signs of ‘Obamification’, roads being carpeted (paved), traffic lines being painted, pedestrian overpasses being built, shabby roadside stalls being removed and only the lucky ones getting appropriate face-lifts, ditches and mediums being raked and cleaned and trees being planted. Somehow the budget for infrastructure, long depleted into dozens of the deep and secret pockets of the affluent leaders miraculously reappeared in time to put on appearances.
For perhaps the last time, I took a mental inventory of the amazing things one can see for sale along Nairobi roadsides: peas, oranges, mangos, tree tomatoes, maise, turkeys (a man carrying two live), bananas, fire extinguishers, steering wheels, emergency car reflector triangles, hats, sports balls, bags, biscuits, CDs, DVDs, learn to read books, gum and candy(sold individually), tiny bags of peanuts, towels, face cloths, magic boards (a low-end, low-tech Etch-a-Sketch) and telephone charges. We passed under the huge and hilariously ugly marabou storks. Busses emblazoned with names like Black Market, Optimist, Black List, Culture, Ebeneezer, Lumnous, Gracious, The Dawn, Jehovah’s Say is Final, Chap Chap and God’s Blessing tottered, screeched and belched along. We passed by the Mercedes dealership and the Panari Hotel, with its indoor ice rink. Was the ironic juxtaposition of the necessary and the superfluous lost of most of the traffic zipping past?
Terminals are still under construction at JKIA and signage is either questionable or missing, so we circled once before finding the Swiss Air drop off. It was under construction, well, actually, it was missing altogether, so we simply pulled over and hastily pulled out our four suitcases. Nelson, never a man of many words, or for showing much emotion and convinced that we will be back in a few years, quietly shook Gary’s hand and looked a little embarrassed by my hug. We were off. My last quick glance back saw Nelson letting a uniformed women into the back seat of the car, I assumed to give her a lift somewhere.
The terminal entrance was not busy and check in was orderly. All security checks were passed, including my two ostrich eggs which had to go carry on and are illegal to buy in Kenya. Mine were purchased in South Africa, where they are sold everywhere, from roadside stalls, to shops to duty-free, but as I had bartered at the side of the road for mine, I had no paperwork. I guess ostrich eggs were not on the high alert list that day.
And so two years had flown by, just like that. In the blink of an eye, our anticipation, our initial loneliness, our busyness, our excitements, our exploring, adventures and travels in Kenya were over. Done. Finito. Just like that. Where had it gone?
Yes, we were anxious to get home, to see family and friends, to get working on the long list of projects at the farm. We were looking forward to the long days of summer, to cleanliness of public spaces and orderliness of behaviour and operations. We were looking forward to driving ourselves, of feeling completely comfortable to go anywhere at any time. Yes, we were ready to leave behind certain 3rd world frustrations. And yet, I was sad to be leaving this adventure behind. True, when one door closes, another opens. And as wonderful as where the new door leads, there is still, for me, a sadness of what is being left behind. But ‘We keep going’ and so we do.
Several hours later, as we were waiting in the departure gate, my phone rang. It was Nelson. Poor Nelson. He had not generously offered to give the uniformed woman a ride. She was a police officer who had arrested him for illegally parking. He had been driving around the airport all that time. The ‘fine’ was 5000 ksh ($65). Nelson insisted that all he had was the 500 ksh that we had given him to pay for the gas to top it off again before returning it to the leasing agency. Eventually, the officer relented and took the 500 ksh. If only I had known what was happening at the time, I would have marched over to the car and had a discussion with the officer, pointing out that a) Nelson had not parked and b) as a result of the airport construction, he stopped in the only place to let passengers out. She would not have been successful with her tricks with us. I almost wonder if she had been lurking around waiting for just such an opportunity. It the manner of many Kenyan police officers.
Filled with all this turmoil, physically, mentally and emotionally drained, we headed to Zurich Swizterland (via Dar es Salaam, Tanzania).
What an absolute joy it was to see Dominik at the Zürich airport. What a happy reunion. We dropped off two of our suitcases and then we were off. With a running commentary of the city, Dominik sped through the down town, there being little traffic in the early Saturday morning hours. Everything was clean and modern and signed and orderly. We skirted along Lake Zürich, a bright blue sparkling sliver nestled in the foot hills. Too early for a stiff sailing breeze, only a few kayak and canoes disturbed the mirrored surface. A small detour off the main highway took us to Operieden, the town now almost enveloped by the sprawl of Zürich and its suburbs, where Dominik grew up. He pointed out the house he grew up in. Back on the highway, we passed the through a narrow gorge which widened out upon the Waldensee, a glacier green and pristine lake. The city and suburbs were far behind us now. We were living in a Heidi post card now. Every view was like something from a travel brochure and now seated shotgun, I was shooting photos left, right and centre. Another side route took us through Bad Ragaz, with its posh shops, hotels and golf course being overseen by a smaller replica of Rio’s Christ upon the hill.
Upon arriving in the chalet dotted mountain village of Klosters, our welcome from Carmen and Emma was no less joyous and we laughed and cried with happiness as we hugged and kissed (three times) and patted one another. Only six weeks, a new home and continent apart , there was much to catch up on. We had a tour through the house. It is almost 300 years old (and I thought the Balm was old) with built-in cupboards and hutches. The combination of traditional (at least to my mind) Swiss touches, of red and ivory checks, bovine images and Nordic themes mixed with their carefully collected pan African treasures made their house a welcoming home. The split front door, allowed the crisp mountain air to flow and kept Emma inside, while allowing her a view while standing on her kind legs. We were shown to our room, on the top floor to ourselves, crisp white linen on duvets, charming red and white accents, white towels, aromatic wooden walls and ceiling. Our beds were strewn with Swiss candies and biscuits. Bottled water on the dresser and the children’s story book about Ursli, of whom we had previously seen and heard. The window between our beds overlooked chalets below, barns on the hillsides, mountain peaks in the distance with a backdrop of crystal skies regardless of the time of day or night. The “Eagles Nest” was the perfect respite.
Carmen’s delightful parents stopped by in the afternoon. While her mother, Annina, is a little reserved and perhaps shy that she didn’t speak much English, but with Carmen’s help, we managed to communicate and share stories. Bardot, Carmen’s father, spoke English very well and was a friendly and gregarious chatter. He and Emma have a very special grandfather/granddog relationship, each adoring the other.
Ccappuccinos, expressos and tea with some Swiss chocolate sitting in their back yard, surrounded by deeply forested hills and snow topped mountains was the perfect way to energize us and a long walk along the glacier river to freshen up and awaken our other senses and appetites. Even the firewood is neatly and even artistically piled. And just in time for a home made, traditional Swiss meal of veal flakes with a creamy onion sauce and my fav, rosti! Heaven.
Upon awakening on our first morning in Switzerland, we drove through Klosters to catch the Madrisa gondola which took us up the Saaser Alp. There we passed the children’s activities (petting zoo, paddle boats, trampolines etc) and made a very short climb to the restaurant. Tables were set up inside and out. The morning was fresh and glorious so we chose one out of the wind and partially in the sun (for me). Sheep skins covered the benches. The preset breakfast arrived; yogurts, granola, cold cuts, fruit, bread and condiments. It was a feast fit for those that had hiked the whole way up, but we tucked in well, nevertheless. Laced strong coffee and tea washed it all down. Now we were ready for a hike. We passed by a cheese making farm, the nearby cows ringing their presence. All kinds of people were on the wide well kept paths with us, families with toddlers and little ones in strollers or back packs, extreme sports enthusiasts, dog walkers and elderly couples, clearly prepared for some good exercise. Despite the still early hour, the day was warming up and we were peeling off layers. We stopped for Emma to drink in one of the cold clear alpine streams and taught her how to ‘dive’ for stones, something that Sydney loves to do, though we haven’t seen Tusker ever put his face in the water either. Emma thought it was great fun as she could get practically completely immersed while her feet were still on the bottom. Summer alpine flowers, including Edelweiss were in full bloom. We stopped at a rest stop at one of the peaks, with a breathtaking view along the pastoral valley below and across to other mountains and ranges. The visibility was incredible. Dozens more photos…
Later that day, we drove to Davos. On the way we stopped at the small picturesque lake of Davosersee. In addition to the surf paddlers and kayaks, there was a school of albacore (boats not tuna) that was either having lessons or racing or both. People were strolling or jogging on a footpath that went around the edge of the circumference of the lake. We commented on how remarkable it was, at least by Canadian standards, that the shoreline was not jammed with personal homes and commercial businesses, but kept as natural as possible. It was also surprising to us, though we learned very Swiss, that the parking lot near the highway was at least one or two kilometers away from the restaurant on the far lakeside. In North America we would see the parking lot right beside the restaurant.
Our breakfast was certainly keeping us going but by mid afternoon we were a bit peckish. What could be a better excuse to skip lunch but stop for a bite and beverage. The unusually hot weather (30 + degrees) chased us into the shade of a patio where we had local beer and wine. We went into the Konditerei/Patisserie next door to chose something from the incredible selection of tasty and beautiful choices. Ahhhh.
As the sun began to slip behind the towering mountains in the back yard, we relaxed and collected ourselves. By dusk, the evening was still warm so we sat outside and enjoyed an authentic, Swiss raclette dinner. I had died and gone to heaven. After dinner we all took Emma for a walk into town and I could admire first hand the charming chalets, wonderful gardens and overflowing window boxes as well as the interesting and unique items in the shop windows. It wasn’t only the closed shops that kept me from buying anything, the prices did that for themselves! We came across an open air jazz festival and dining tent but we were ready to get home and tuck in. We met friends of Carmen and Dominik, a young couple and their small baby home from their expat stint in Houston Texas and the baby’s maternal grandmother. They had all loved their experience in the US and were hoping to return someday. We chatted about the joys and challenges of expat life. As they had only just returned, they were experiencing, and struggling through their own reverse culture shock. The young mother/lawyer passed along a url about coping . I haven’t had a chance (or need yet) to read it, but its quite handly.
Monday morning dawned cool and slightly overcast. Our hosts had been busy planning the perfect itinerary and after a wholesome and hearty breakfast we headed out past Davos, through forests and fields dotted with post card villages with old stone churches and along vertiginous switchbacks. We were heading towards the Julierpass and as we approached the peak, we stopped for a cuppa in the restaurant, passing the round table in the corner reserved for locals, and were startled by how cold (not cool) and windy it was. But singles and groups of hikers of all ages were making a brief stop here before carrying on (or up). At this height, we could get a closer look at the many avalanche protection fences ringing the top of most of the peaks. Despite the chill and autumn feel, the land was speckled and ringing with cows grazing in their summer pastures and we saw the occasional ancient cow herders sheds with their mossy stone roves.
Next stop, St Moritz, the winter playground of the rich and famous. We wandered the tiny web of streets admiring the high end exclusive shops, including at least a dozen of the top watch brands (9 of the top 10 being Swiss). Here the homes have cooper eavestroughs and downspouts! Lovely to look around, but too rich for our taste, we back tracked along the aquamarine Silvaplanersee to have lunch at the aptly names La Bellavista restaurant. By now it was hot enough to require an umbrella over our table and we enjoyed wonderful food in a magnificent setting.
Replenished with our meal and refreshed after a brief walk along the shores of the lake, we were ready to head on. As we headed to Guarda, Carmen’s favorite village and once the home of Alois Carigiet and her famous young character Ursli, Carm and Dom took us past huge stone and brick aquaducts which looked old and like they could have been lifted from a Harry Potter movie. Thirsty again, we stopped for a beverage. Driving like this requires attention and quick reflexes. A prescription for cappuccino.
We retraced only a couple of miles before we turned off the way we had come to take one of two short cuts back to Klosters. The fastest and most direct option is for the car, with passengers, to board the train that goes through the mountain in a tunnel to the other side. It would have been interesting, but despite the risk of breathtaking scenery overload, we chose option two, the Fluela Pass. We were not disappointed, lush green valleys, verdant evergreen and deciduous forests, rocky hillsides and snow-capped mountains. Breathtaking indeed. Pinch me.
After all the food, excitement and driving in one day, bitings of cheese and charcuterie and a fresh peach torte was the perfect ending to a wonderful day.
Our last full day in Switzerland and the day that Carmen and Dominik’s shipment from Nairobi was due to arrive. We had another great breakfast. Emma got picked up by Bardot and they were off for a fun day of hiking and possibly errands together. Dominik took us to Landquart where we could catch a direct train to Zurich. Naturally, it arrived exactly on time. We sat upstairs in an immaculate rail car and waved Domi off, exactly 2 minutes later. Even though we were seeing the same scenery in the reverse order of our arrival 4 days earlier, we were mesmerized. The only startling thing was the 10 euros for a tiny cappuccino and cup of tea! We skimmed along beside the shores of the Walensee, we passed below steep rugged hills sides, we crossed sparkling, rushing rivers and we slid through lush farmers’ fields. In one of those fields, along one of those rivers, I saw five herons together.
We arrived in the huge and efficient Stadelhofen train station and easily stored all of our luggage (even the camera bag!) in a locker. Then we spent the afternoon wandering around the historic and noteworthy sites of Zürich. We walked along the very high end Bahnhofstrasse, a bigger, busier more cosmopolitan version of St Moritz. We stopped in the austere St Peterskirche. The current building was consecrated in 1706 as the first church built under Protestant rule but now part of the Evangelical Reformed Church of the Canton of Zürich. Until 1911, the steeple was manned by a fire watch. Restoration work was carried out in 1970 to 1975. The steeple’s clock face, the largest in all of Europe, has a diameter of 8.7 m. The bells date to 1880.
Next we saw the second of the four famous Zürich churches, the Fraumünster Kirche (lit. in English: Women’s Minster, but often wrongly translated to [Our] Lady Minster) built on the remains of a former abbey for aristocratic women which was founded in 853 by Louis the German his daughter Hildegard. Today, it belongs to the Evangelical Reformed Church of the Canton of Zürich. The choir of the abbey includes 5 large stained glass windows designed by artist Marc Chagall and installed in 1970. Each of the 5 has a dominant color and depicts a Christian story. Equally impressive is the 9m tall stained glass of the North transept, created by Augusto Giacometti in 1940.
Then we crossed the Limmat River and stopped for a cold beverage before continuing onto the Grossmunster Kirche. The third of the great four is a Romanesque-style Protestant Church. It too is part of the Evangelical Reformed Church of the Canton of Zurich. Construction of the present structure commenced around 1100 and it was inaugurated around 1220.
The twin towers of the Grossmünster are regarded as perhaps the most recognized landmark in Zurich. In keeping with the Romanesque architectural style, Grossmünster offers a great carved portal featuring medieval columns with grotesques adorning the capitals. The church now features modern stained-glass windows by Swiss artist Augusto Giacometti which were added in 1932. Incredibly ornate massive bronze doors in the north and south portals were added in 1935 and 1950. Fascinating to me where the stone windows designed by Sigmar Polke, who sliced semi-precious stones so thinly they became transparent and then assembled them in such a way as to give beautifully colourful windows.
By late afternoon, we were tired as we wandered through the fruit and flower stands in the Rathaus market on our way back to the train station. We stopped in the police station to see Augusto Giacometti’s magnificent murals (1923 – 1925) which adorn the vaulted ceiling and the walls. Then we gathered our luggage at the station and boarded the train to the airport to pick up the rest of our luggage and took the hotel shuttle to the Hilton for the night. We ate supper in the hotel restaurant overlooking the city and went to bed early, ready for an early morning start, a long flight and Canadian re-entry.
For four glorious days, we recharged ourselves. Carmen and Dominic were such gracious hosts I had been exhausted and overtired, emotionally stretched taut and ready to snap. .For four days, I mentally parked in neutral. I did not have a to do list. I did not organize itineraries. I did not navigate traffic or determine routes. I did not menu plan. We went to bed when we were tired and got up when we woke refreshed. We walked, hiked, chatted, read, ate, drank and simply relaxed together. I have found that it seems to work that way with really good friends. Its easy. And it was heaven. Emotionally, it was a safe and comfortable harbour, no shoals or hazards for which to remain vigilant. It was the perfect way to decompress, to relax and take a deep breath, before we re-entered Canada, before we hit the ground running. We were able to re-acclimatize to 1st world living, in a country that while different from Canada with its mountains and picturesque villages dotted with resplendent window-boxed chalets and quietly proper and reserved citizens, it was also similar with its 1st world amenities and infrastructure, education system, incredible cleanliness and safety and its respect for nature.
How do I thank people like Glenda and Carmen and Dominik, who enabled our experience to be one of such fond memories, who took care of us, who offered and provided what we needed when we didn’t even know what those needs were? How can I even begin to express my appreciation for not only what they did, but what they were always willing to do.
It takes me back to those days when Alistair was in the hospital and to the weeks following his death. The ripples of our lives. So many people, family, friends, neighbours and strangers did so much for us. Some of those people we could show our gratitude in word and deed, we said thanks, we did and will reciprocate the meals and the gifts and we are be ready to help them with willing hands and hearts. There are others, known or unknown, for whom we may never be in a position to reciprocate or say thanks. The lesson I learned then, that I am again reminded of, is to pay it forward. To be generous with my time, my words and my thoughts, with those I know and even with those I don’t know. It can make an incredible difference to someone.
We don’t always know the ripples or impact of our words and deeds, but to my expat clan, my Nairobi tribe (expats and locals alike) I would like to thank them for all their gifts so generously heaped upon us. Gary and I look forward to ‘paying you all back’, somewhere, some time. We look forward to hosting our dear friends at the Balm. We anticipate wonderful reunions around the world. One door has shut, and a hundred more stand open.
THANK YOU.
PS Stay tuned, more posts of Africa to come.